jane doe collection.
jane doe.
we learned how not to become her.
watch your drink.
don't walk alone.
share your location.
text me when you get home.
check the backseat.
stay together.
don't make him angry.
be aware of your surroundings.
we learned the rules
so early
they stopped feeling
like rules.
they became things
women just knew.
things we reminded
each other to do.
things we taught
the girls coming after us.
all in the name
of keeping women safe.
we learned
how not to become her.
maybe the question
was never what else
women needed to learn.
maybe the question is
what are we teaching men?
choose how you carry it
sweatshirt
a quiet way to carry the words.
world's shittiest club.
best i can.
nobody signs up for this one.
there's no orientation. no welcome packet. just a life you didn't choose and the work of learning how to live in a world that no longer has your person in it.
this is for the people already in it.
what this is
a sweatshirt that doesn't try to fix anything.
the front says best i can.
the inside sleeve carries a word for what you're living through:
widowing.
learning to live in a world without your person.
not advice.
not an affirmation.
recognition you can carry.
the words
front: best i can.
inner neck label: world's shittiest club.
inside sleeve:
widowing.
wid·ow·ing | verb
learning to live in a world without your person.
the sweatshirt
• Gildan® 18000 Heavy Blend crewneck sweatshirt
• 50% cotton / 50% polyester
• soft fleece interior
• classic unisex fit
• ribbed crewneck, cuffs, and waistband
• front chest print
• inside forearm sleeve print
• custom inner neck label
• made to order
• free shipping
about best i can.
everything we create begins by giving language to the experiences that leave people feeling alone.
because there will always be more experiences that deserve words.
the format changes.
the mission never does.
we'll be here.
world's shittiest club.
best i can.
you still say we.
you hear it after you've said it.
you know they're gone.
you didn't forget.
we was simply the word that belonged in the sentence.
because for so long, there was a we.
and sometimes there still is.
this is for the people still saying it.
what this is
a sweatshirt that doesn't try to fix anything.
the front says best i can.
the inside sleeve carries the words:
i still say we.
not because you forgot.
because some parts of a life built as two don't become singular just because one person is gone.
not advice.
not an affirmation.
recognition you can carry.
the words
front: best i can.
inner neck label: world's shittiest club.
inside sleeve: i still say we.
the sweatshirt
• Gildan® 18000 Heavy Blend crewneck sweatshirt
• 50% cotton / 50% polyester
• soft fleece interior
• classic unisex fit
• ribbed crewneck, cuffs, and waistband
• front chest print
• inside forearm sleeve print
• custom inner neck label
• made to order
• free shipping
about best i can.
everything we create begins by giving language to the experiences that leave people feeling alone.
because there will always be more experiences that deserve words.
the format changes.
the mission never does.
we'll be here.